A person who becomes a happy life, which does not have to be superior or rear-ended by school caste, has "certain characteristics" in boys and girls' age

BySergio souza

"Whether it is healthy at the age of 80 is determined by human relationships in my 50's"Although it is derived from past research, it is indicated in the research that how to spend the age of teenage boys and girls has a big influence on later life, too. According to this study, people with high self-esteem and low social unrest and depression levels at the age of 25 did not have a shallow and wide human relationship among popular groups in their teens and had closer friends That's right.

Close Friendship Strength and Broader Peer Group Desirability as Differential Predictors of Adult Mental Health - Narr - 2017 - Child Development - Wiley Online Library
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/cdev.12905/abstract

High school popularity may not lead to happiness, study finds - ABC News
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/high-school-popularity-lead-happiness-study-finds/story?id=49355214

Having a stronger, closer friendship as a teenager predicts less depression as a young adult - Quartz
https://qz.com/1059666/having-a-stronger-closer-friendship-as-a-teenager-predicts-less-depression-as-a-young-adult/

According to a study done by Rachel K. Narr and colleagues studying clinical psychology at the University of Virginia, the people who had intimate friends at the age of 15 to 16 years had a shallow friendship by making a big group Compared with the popular, I found that the level of self-esteem at the age of 25 was high, and the level of social unrest and depression was low. In Japan and the United States, depending on the degree of popularity in schools and classesSchool casteHowever, it was shown that being a popular person at the top of the school caste in the age of boys and girls can not be said to be necessarily useful when looking at the long term.

ByAbo Ngalonkulu

Narr and colleagues studied 169 young people over the course of 10 years. Subjects got detailed interviews about close friends and friendship in general at the age of 15 and 25 and at the same time answered questions about anxiety, self-esteem, symptoms of depression, and social acceptance. In addition, diversity was established for children who became subjects for race, ethnicity and socio-economic.

At this time, in the interview, "Children who said that children who were told that someone's best friend actually thinks that person as their close friends", "Children who said that they are" popular " Was it really a popular person as seen from a third party? " In this research, "high quality friendship" is defined as "close friendship with some degree of trust and support and intimate exchanges".

In the past, there is popularity that popularity is popular due to the popularity of "type favorite" by friends because of "favorable as a person" and "having a position in some way and having influence on others" People are reported to be easy to choose the latter, but this research is also seen as related to such "popularity".

There are two kinds of "popularity", we tend to choose the popularity of wrong people - GIGAZINE


Professor Mitch Prinstein of the University of North Carolina who conducts research on popularity also tends to be popular as a "preferred person" in the end, being healthy, building better relationships, satisfying with work, living longer , People of the type seeking status are suffering from symptoms such as anxiety and depression, claiming to be susceptible to dependence. Professor Prinstein has not participated in Mr. Narr's research, but commented that "evidence of a kind of human relations becomes more important than other human relationships" .

In this research, we do not show the short-term impact that "Depression level changes at the age of 16 depending on whether there is a close friend at the age of 15". Also, why do not you have close friends that affect human happiness when viewed from a long-term perspective rather than in the short term? Although there is no evidence about that, Narr said about his reasons that "teenage friends are human relations built up only when boys and girls leave their family" and "that identities are formed at the same time" It is. Meanwhile, friends are often different at the age of 15 and 25, so it is also seen that what is important is not a friend itself but a "skill to build friendship". By developing technologies that build relationships to train muscles, children can acquire self-esteem and confidence that "they can build relationships of trust". And it will lead to "intimate human relations in a romantic sense" that this technology should build at the next stage of life.

On the contrary, it has also been confirmed that popular children who frequently went to parties in boys and girls' era had lost their charm at the age of 25. About this fact, "about drinking alcohol or having sex It is special for children, even if they are 25 years old, they are neither special nor unique, "Narr says.

ByWil Stewart

However, in this study, the causal relationship part such as "Do friendship hardly cause depression? Can children with a low tendency of depression develop friendship" are not investigated. In addition, since the survey started in 2001, SNS became popular, so the circumstances may be different from those in 2017.

"When comparing intimate human relationships and shallow broad interpersonal relationships, the element of" popularity "may not function in the same way: what is said to be successful with one human relationship is success in another human relationship "Narr wants to delve into this research such as" What is the most important thing to have a positive influence in the future? "In the future.