The difference between 'harmonious sexual passion' and 'aggressive sexual passion' to know in order to live a richer sex life


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Pabak Sarkar

Several important factors are essential for living physically and physically fulfilling sex life, but it is important in the background that how sexual desires are processed and integrated within you It is becoming clear in the research that it is.

Understanding the Cognitive and Motivational Underpinnings of Sexual Passion From a Dualistic Model.-PubMed-NCBI
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/27936833

The Science of Passionate Sex-Scientific American Blog Network
https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/the-science-of-passionate-sex/

A research team by Professor Frederic Philippe of the University of Quebec-Montreal and Professor Robert J Valleran of the Australian Catholic University has published a dissertation summarizing research on the concept of 'harmonious sexual passion' .

This concept refers to a passion for sexuality that is harmonized and coordinated with a person who is different from self while minimizing interference with areas different from sex in life. By harmonizing the desire for sex, sex activities of people become open, unforced and spontaneous, and non-aggressive. When measuring how much a person has 'harmonious sexual passion' 'Sex is a part of me, but in harmony with a different person from me' 'Sex is me Questions such as 'Sex is well integrated with other activities in my life' and so on.


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On the other hand, in the case of a person with opposite “aggressive sexual passion”, sex is not well integrated with oneself and life, and sexual desire is not well integrated with oneself and other elements. That there is a state in which In this case, it is indicated in the dissertation that sex tends to be as narrow as simply seeking orgasm, and that it tends to have a threatening idea to sex itself. So to speak, it's stressed by physical desires and feelings of urgency, and the 'joy' that you get with sex is limited.

The aggressive type is said to have negative emotions even during sex activities. For those with an aggressive sexual passion, when looking at a sexually motivated mindset, conflict with other goals, an interest in another partner, and an object with sexual attraction, It has a characteristic that it is difficult to maintain concentration on the task in front of the present.

Also, in the case of these people, they tend to process one information in a biased (biased) way of thinking. For example, having a strong sexual impression on keywords such as 'Nurse', 'High heels' and 'School uniform' is a typical example. On the other hand, the harmonious type is said to be in a state of high harmony with various elements of life, such as a loving partner or other person.


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For example, if you indicate to the subject as 'write a word about sex as much as possible in one minute' as shown as one of the interesting results, a clear difference between a harmonious person and an offensive person That was seen. In the case of aggressive people, there were many terms that clearly felt something sexual, such as 'penis', 'breasts', 'vibrator', etc. We know that we have mentioned a number of terms that do not make you feel direct sexuality, such as 'intimate', 'caress' and 'intercourse'. And from this result, it is judged whether the person has an offensive sexual passion based on the fact that the ratio of sexual words and non-speech words is '2: 1'. The fact that it has a tendency to stick is highlighted.

The important point here is that aggressive sexual passion is not necessarily the same as 'sexual impulse' or 'sex addiction'. It is common to these people to have negative emotions during sex, but it is characterized by the fact that a person with aggressive sexual passion continues to have some kind of 'suffering' even after sex And.

No matter what the above cases apply to having sexual desire, there is a difference depending on how you handle it. In the case of people who can be accepted integratively, they can live a richer sex life, but in the case of a person who can not handle it while holding offensive elements, it only leads to 'poor offensive' sex The trend is highlighted.

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