How can we tell people the fun of dreams?

byElena Kalis

Although I woke up with excitement with a tremendously interesting dream, when I talked to people about the contents of my dreams, I could not get any fun and there would be some people saying that only the reaction of "hu ... ..." came only ... . Animation that explains in a easy-to-understand way on YouTube is released as to why it is difficult to talk about the contents of a dream, how to talk about making others interested.

How to Recount Your Dreams - YouTube


If you stayed at an old hotel ... ...


Suddenly, a big wave hit you.


Someone threw a pencil.


At that time, you are sitting with my grandmother in the back seat of a big car.


Meanwhile, received a test ......


As I climb the wall ......


I was blocked from going to a huge squirrel.


I wake up there. You know that all the landscapes you have been looking at were dreams, you might be excited as "What an interesting dream!", Or you might feel that "this dream has something big meaning" not.


And as you go down the stairs, think about how to talk about dreams to family and friends.


As a result, you talk about the contents of your dreams as it is. I will tell you how excited I was in my dreams, was the development of surprise.


However, even if you talk, the opponent simply returns "oh" with a blank eyes, or "I said that" the amount of cereal was getting smaller "to talk about it.


As for this cause, "Because dreams are originally unique and unique, it is possible to think that fun is not transmitted".


In fact, "the difficulty of talking about a dream" is the same as the difficulty of talking about "talking about holidays", "what about thinking about children" "how society should be" and so on.


When you talk about dreams, I realize it more strongly, but in many of our everyday things the act of "letting others talk to others" is difficult. People are inadequate to listen to the story as a whole, so it is not enough to "speak as it is" in order to "listen to the story", and the speaker's skills and training are necessary.


When talking, people tend to talk enthusiastically and believe that the credibility of the story is sufficient. Also, I often think that what I thought was important and beautiful, that is, others would have the same opinion.


In this way, self-centered and self-centered feelings are often held by children who are "the worst speaker". Children do not think that "people around me are in a different place psychologically from myself and do not try to understand their own ideas unless they arrange the contents to the proper length and contents for the other party" .


And this is also the "principle of storytelling".


The first principle of storytelling is commonplace, but "the talker understands the story before the listener". When speaking a story to someone, the speaker needs to understand the story at least five times as much as the listener.


So let 's chew your story a lot by crocating over time when you talk about your dreams.


And make more effort to shorten rather than lengthen the story.


Philosopher'sBlaze PascalIt is said that in a letter addressed to a friend, "I am sorry that I do not have time to shorten the story."


It is also important to keep the story simple. Every anecdote is an accumulation of detail bound by logic. If you compare the story to a single tree, you do not need to describe all the leaves, even if you draw branches.


The fourth point is that facts such as dates, times, and actions are more difficult to draw people's interests than "emotions".


Conversely, "emotion" is the core part that attracts people's interest, and what emotions were born by what happened is more important in anecdotes than the fact of "what has happened" itself.


The contents in our heads, even in dreams, are not to be 'too boring' or 'strange' for others to understand. Just remember that we do not have a culture of listening to complicated events that happened to other people in their own way, when we talk.