Knowing the tips and secrets to overcome "communicative disorder" and talking "Why do you feel easy to talk to this person"

An announcer who is active and active in Bali Bali · Naoki Yoshida, how "Communal disorder"Beyond being able to talk freely as it is now, the book which teaches exactly the know-how is"Why does it make me easier to talk to this person"is. Yoshida's work is the impression that "what on earth is communication disorder ... ..." is impressive, but there seems to be a part called "because it is a communication obstacle" (because it was a communication problem).

"Why do you feel better if you talk to this person" Feature page - Nao Yoshida / Ota publication
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It is announcer of Nippon Broadcasting Broadcasting CorporationYoshida NaotohiIs broadcasting from 24 o'clock Monday to ThursdayMu - Komi + plusIn addition to the chairperson of the program such as show host, MC and moderator was also handed down at various events and presentations, and it was distributed and broadcasted on NOTTV · niconico · TOKYO MXServed as the production director with raw animation "Mirai Diva"I am raising. It is not an exaggeration to say that he is doing a good job, as he is progressing smoothly and at the same time as a guest gets a big reaction that shows a big reaction, but in fact it seems to be a "community disorder".

Communal disorder is a slang that abbreviated "communication disorder", it is roughly said that "people who are not very friendly with people", Ms. Yoshida said "I do not want myself hurting, but it is not easy to hurt people more than that He said "I do not like being aware of it" but also "I have not completely overcome the communication obstacle yet." However, if you look from the side, it is work that is unlikely to be a communication problem. That's why it is revealed in this book why.

The cover of this book looks something like this, the illustration is known as "Yozakura Quartet" "Durarara !!"Yasudasu HitoMr.


Such a cute girl is drawn in the return part. However, since it is not a light novel, the beautiful girl Yasuda draws does not appear in the text.


The contents are largely divided into "Basic Edition" and "Technical Edition", and there are nine chapters thereunder.



A list of big headlines / subheadings is like this.

Introduction I, good-bye, good-bye
I am afraid of meeting unknown people / The purpose of communication is communication / communication as technology / wanting to get uptight, want to be together! / Communication does not need desire for self-manifestation / There are few people who think that communication is good

1 What is communication?
Where you are having trouble with conversation, what elevator / what "everyday always others" is ahead of basic / information transmission / what is "community disability"? / Definition of "Communication disorder" / It is possible to become the best communicator even if it says "have confidence" / Communication distinguish between enemies and ally / Let's monitor ordinary conversation

2 I was "Communicating"
Communication obstacles became a radio announcer! / I can not see the other's eyes / Nazo's skill called "listeners" / regular fellow of communication / commentary on the face of conversation / What is communication tactics

3 "Game" called communication
Grasping communication as "game" / Characteristics of communication / game not cooperative play / cooperative play / enemy awkward / game is forced start / various victory conditions of game 1 / various victory conditions of game 2 / player Basic / Communication is not a self expression / Interrupting "I want to motivate" / Bite the interview / Communication · Game interview / Speak to your opponent more and more

4 Basic attitude of the game player
Let's have a feeling of prejudice / prejudice can be wrong / misunderstanding with a welcome / not 'tell' but 'transmitted' / what can be transmitted can not be controlled / seems to be lucky / ignore inferiority / ignore inferiority / I am disliked I do not think / gamble at the end

Silence is the goal
What is "to read the air"? / Reason for concretely chewing / reading air / Reason for matching tension / mood is brought up between people / hair repairing and communication / representation of waste talk girls talk / meaningless and nonsense hybrid / silence Can be related

6 Communication · Game Techniques
What is communication and time / topic? / Question for the opponent / Interested in the partner / Converting interests to questions / Trying on the other party's say / Desire to be a positive feeling / Do not try to dominance in conversation / Surprised Let's increase opportunities / positive experiences

7 Grasp the question ability
The most famous question in Japan / "Have you cleared your hair?" Is one of the gods 1 / "Have you cut your hair?" Is one of the gods 2 / "Trap / Pass / Dribbling" in the conversation / Trap - Talk about the opponent / Listen to the whole story / Solid trap "Fuh" "Hee" "I see, I see" / Amplification of impressions and direct pass / pass - Asking / Asking questions that the other is interested / Mentally asking questions / Questions Practice technique / put baking soda in conversation / find pass course / interview technique / dribble - make your own story / dribble comfortably to your opponent

8 characters and fool strategies
What is a character? / Character is from surrounding prediction / How to find character / Fool strategy / Betting against faults / People who make visual impairment a strong person / "Nani is bad ska" / Children's strongest

9 Fraudulent acts of communication and games
Do not lie / Do not lie / Do not lie / Do not lie / Let's exercise your right to rest / Braggle / Do not deny what your opponent says / "I do not dislike" / Do not say "Do not talk" / Do not stepping on landmines

Conclusion Communication is thoroughly done, for people
Let's talk for the opponent / people are not so strict / Gumbare, courage in me / I will forgive myself / desire to communicate and desire communication

In writing this book, Mr. Yoshida performed Nico Nico live broadcast eight times, entitled "I Good-Bye, Good-Bye." We also include the viewer 's comments and talking about what we are thinking about and shaping it into the manuscript later. Comments received in the book are indicated by the <> sign, for example, "Murimuri" "Do you get used to it?" "Have you become so familiar?" "But when you talk, Mr. Yoshida is not communicable? "The comment of the person who was watching the delivery. Communication like Yoshida-san received comments to advance the story is taken.


Mr. Yoshida thought that communication is "game" though it is also the title of Chapter 3. In other words, the goal is to make people feel comfortable through conversation, by joining all the people on the spot, not by fighting but by fighting "awkwardness" in cooperation. Although it does not win 100% more than a game, participants are trying to avoid mutual awkwardness, so cooperative play is in an environment where it is easy to cooperate.

Among them, Mr. Yoshida cited as a basic technique that the probability of success improves "To let people speakThat thing. In the case of Ms. Yoshida, "I often decide what to ask and go meet to see people, but I decide to talk and not go see people." It is the key to victory as to how to respond after receiving the things that I talked about.

However, the word "air reading" is suffering from people with communicable disabilities including this kikkake. Someone who dominates the spot silomono named "air" has no shadow and shape, so I do not have any idea, so I do not know at all how to read it. Mr. Yoshida said "Adjust your tension to the mood of the placeIn other words. In other words, when everyone's tension is high, only myself is low, or when the tension enters high in a cold atmosphere, it is said to be "read the air". On the contrary, it is good to be sensitive to two of "high" and "low".

Mr. Yoshida cited a concrete example at the event venue. Although it is only necessary to be excited, it seems that there are many cases where there are many people waiting silently because the community failure rate is high frequently when individuals hit by lottery are gathered individually. When Yoshida-san, who is the host, enters with a high tension, customers will not come with us. So, at the beginning, at low tension it is said that "Hello, cheers for good work" and enter according to the mood of the place, gradually raise the tension.

In the second half of "Technical Edition", the tips that are linked from "Talking to people" touched in the first half, and progressing communication games are posted.


In order to "make people talk" you need to "create an easy-to-talk environment for your opponent", but if you can say so, you should not be communicating if you can create an environment. Again, Mr. Yoshida concretely said "You have to ask a question"I answer and explain that it is important to have an interest in the partner in order to ask a question.

Also, the most important point is "I will not dominate in conversationThat thing. People want to be dominant, but as mentioned above, communication is not a competition game, you should not think that you want to cooperate with the opponent who is trying to be in a superior position. As its practical technique "Hold on"To be surprised"FunThree of them were mentioned. On the other hand,Lie ban"Boast is legal"I do not deny what others sayThe attention point is also raised.

If you know an announcer named Yoshida Naoji, Yoshida is surprised to see that "I do not think that I was able to overcome the communicable disorder" that appeared first, "Yeah?" Surprisingly, Yoshida is smooth and smooth Communication is taking place. However, it is natural that the conversation will bounce if it is practicing and practicing the same things that appeared in this book. As far as communication is concerned "game", as Mr. Yoshida also wrote, the success rate is not 100%, but if the other party is thinking "want to communicate well", cooperation You should be able to make it successful. As a cheat sheet for leading the success, people interested please read this book.

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