3 tips to keep your conversation going fun and smart without interruption

ByMarkus Koljonen

We will have time with strangers, and as soon as we start an obscene conversation the conversation stops and we often have an awkward feeling. However, by paying attention to the following three things, you will be able to enjoy the conversation smarter.

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Present valuable presentations to be widely sharedTEDOnline site organized byIdeas.ted.comso,Chris CollinWith Mr.Rob BakerHe summarizes the three essentials to know, which is necessary to make a conversation made with a less intimate relationship more fun and meaningful than a public story.

◆1: Open-end question
Ask questions that people who are asked can choose answers only from limited itemsClosed-end question, On the contrary, a question to which a free answer is permittedOpen-end questionI call it. When talking to a person who is still unfamiliar with it, it is important to try to open and end question as much as possible in order to develop the story.

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For example, rather than asking "Where are your hometowns?" Rather than asking, "Where is the interesting place in your hometown?" Or "Why is your name?" What is the origin of that? "Speaking more, the conversation is interrupted and less subtle air flows.

◆2: Avoid parrots
People often politely observe opponents when answering questions, so when the conversation becomes slender and begins to feel uncomfortable, you unconsciously synchronize with your opponent and inadvertently paraphrase the opponent's words It is said that it tends to do.

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It is hot indeed, "Yes, it is really hot," or "It is too bad that he will die," "Yes, really regrettable" and so on, unfortunately repeating the words of the other party Common things. In such a case, it is recommended to add an unexpected twist.

For example, if you were told that "It's nice weather," if you could return it with a twist of saying "It is really fine, even if there is a weather forecast like a sunny alarm," the conversation seems to be more fascinated.

◆3: Challenge
If it becomes possible to do 1 or 2 above, it will be drastically reduced that you suffer from boring conversation. However, in order to enjoy further conversation, it is recommended to challenge "surprisingly jokes" like surprising as a further step after the unexpected reply.

For example, in the question "How was the flight?", "Even if you answered clearly a lie" such as "I was surprised that the ticket fee is decided by weight and IQ" And that.

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It is difficult to make a turn as soon as possible to make a witty "return" 3 3, but it seems to be difficult but two of "open-end question" 1 and 2 "avoiding parrot returning" But it seems to be possible.

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