Scolding a child and scolding it causes causes of inferiority and depression

ByTambako The Jaguar

Although there is no objection that corporal punishment is a wrong way as a child's discipline, research results have been issued that "violence by words" adversely affects the growth of children even if they do not use violence.

Parents' Harsh Words Might Make Teen Behaviors Worse: Shots - Health News: NPR
http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2013/09/04/218972701/parents-harsh-words-might-make-teen-behaviors-worse

Parents: Yelling and swearing at teens can backfire
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/09/04/teen-behavior-parents-discipline/2724361/

Associate Professor Wang Mintet and the research team of the Faculty of Education and Psychology at Pittsburgh University interviewed 976 households with 13 years old and 14 year old children with parents who have children in 2 years, so that young schooling methods and children's We examined the correlation with problem behavior. In addition, it is said that general middle class families, which included almost the same number of whites and blacks, were chosen as the subjects of the survey so that the outcome was not influenced by economic power and ethnicity.

What was clarified as a result of the survey,When a 13 year old child continues to be appalled from his mother or father for one year, the probability of causing a behavioral behavior increases and the probability that children will show symptoms of depression also increasedIt was the fact. Surprisingly, it was said that whether mothers and fathers paid a deep love did not affect the strong relationship between children's problem behavior and depressive symptoms.

In further research,Children with a lot of problem behavior tend to yell at ease on a daily basisIt was also revealed. However, it is quite a part of communication with children, it is very difficult to isolate only the influence of shouting, so it is very difficult for parents to think that screaming of parents causes problem behavior of children or parents who have difficulty with children It was impossible to determine clearly whether to screech up.

Dr. Wang said, "No matter how much the parent screams, the child has not heard of it at all, so it is ineffective to scold and scold, rather considering the risk that the child will be more aggressive and become inferior to being faulty, shouting We should avoid ruining. "

ByAndrew Taylor

Dr. Wang gave research resultsWiley Online LibraryHowever, many psychologists who study the relationship between children and their families talk about saying that parents with teens should think about the meaning of this research result well.

Washington, DC psychologist Dr. Neil Bernstein said that keeping up with disciplining methods of shouting or criticizing simply makes the child uncomfortable and disbelieving, parents who are laying down children are not interested in children I tell you that we can not do effective education like negligent parents. And, "Of course, because it is human, everyone is emotional and there is a thing that gives a shouting, which is never condemned.If the child drives drunk driving or driving recklessly and makes himself in a dangerous situation If you look at exposing it, you should avoid avoiding many problems with parents shouting or kidding their children for a long time after speaking to them, "I want to die out loud!" I assume that.

Dr. Bernstein said the three major elements in child rearing are "Good communication, affection, disciplineIt is said that children will be happily and healthily raised by executing these three. And if the child did something bad, for example, when the daughter broke the curfew, discipline can be kept by giving punishment that it will not allow you to go out until you do not repent from the heart if you do not do it again. While it is said that it is a good punishment to pick up high tech toys for the children of the recent digital generation, punishment should be finished in a short period of time, and as soon as the child takes a good action, the toy should be returned I will talk.

ByNandakumar Subramaniam

Professor Alan Kazdin, who teaches psychology and child psychiatry at Yale University, said that the educational method that yells at young people is a harmful thing that harms the mental and physical health of children, and what is important as a parent is "(Accepting, loving, hugging childrenIt is said that it is. And, "The goal of discipline is to tell the children how they want to behave.The young at that time will stop the behavior at that time but can not wear the desired behavior.What is necessary is that the child's goal It is to recognize the behavior correctly, find good behavior and find a good behavior and praise it properly.When this is possible, the child will respect his parents and reduce bad behavior, "Dr. Kazdin says.

ByAndy Peters

Among at least psychologists, there is a consistent view that the bothersome discipline method is harmful, and as children grow up watching parents, parents themselves can say that they should collaborate correctly and be a good example .