Why is not it a bad thing to be a "boring adult"?


ByMiss Treats House of Delights

Adults prefer stability, avoid avoiding loud music and exciting events, think about children's thoughts about life, and children decide firmly that "adults are definitely not ... ..." Something, it will become like an adult of a day when there is nothing. However, from a biological viewpoint, it seems that it is not necessarily a pessimistic one.

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The biological criminal who produces the so-called "boring adult" is the frontal cortex of the brainAmygdalaTwo parts of. The amygdala is a very primitive part of the brain and has a major role in the processing and memory of emotional reactions such as feelings, hunger, sexual desire. On the other hand, the frontal cortex has functions to suppress emotions, extend joy first, and make future plans. Execution function is the ability to decide what kind of future result will be generated by the current behavior, so to speak, the part who plays the reason. This is why deterrence will become dull as the function of the prefrontal cortex decreases.

The development of the brain starts with the amygdala and continues to the frontal cortex. Amygdala is the earliest ripening part in the brain, the frontal cortex is formed in 15-25 years in a form lagging behind it, and finally what is called mature brain is completed. Meanwhile, there is a battle in the human brain.

ByDjclear904

In the process of the development of the brain, boys and girls experience ups and downs of intense emotions. I long for joy and reward, and I do not show interest in uncertain outcome. Looking for new experiences and friends, the world is a pure white canvas, there is nothing that will keep them and it is dedicated to those that produce great results. During this period people will make various choices and actions and gain skills, but at this point our brains are not yet shaped.

As it approaches 30's, it plays the role of a filter between the amygdala and the worldPrefrontal cortexWill mature and become more emphasis on intelligent aspects. By doing so, people with a mature prefrontal cortex fear big decisions, and adults preferring stability are larger than big adventures.

ByProfessionals WA - NT

So why is not this a necessarily bad thing?

That's because mature brains are interested in the outcome you created while you were young. If you decide a risky action like starting a business by the late 20's, pursuing love, experiencing a different culture for months, using your passionate soul, you can do it in your 30's That you can shape it. The business is even bigger, love makes it possible to make it to the family, the land which was different culture to be a cozy place.

ByAmanda Mabel

In other words, what you should do in your 20s is to burn passion, make a risky decision, chase love, acquire right skills and customs, and mature the brain. It is important not to have empty time by the age of 30s.

Meanwhile, this brain's mechanism also prevents people from making reasons to lose when they step in their thirties.

And once it matures, our brain has sufficient flexibility. There are people who do not lose their curiosity to the world and new things even though they actually get older, and that is why we hope to be more or less like that.

ByCaroline

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