"What do you like?" Women are drawn to men who are unknown whether they are likable to themselves

ByLǝuoıl sılıpoq

That long ago Candies was "I am wondering how young boys think of meAlthough I sang the feelings of a girl named Virginia University and Harvard University psychologists, in fact the women actually said that they are "more like myself" than their counterparts who clearly understand " It is clear that you feel attractive to the partner that you do not know whether you like it or not.

The "younger boy" who was taking a word to make her senior her "clearly hear" her voice is actually a guru of love affair.

Details are as below.'He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not ...': Women Are More Attracted To Men Whose Feelings Are Unclear - Association for Psychological Science

A woman who likes "like, likes, likes, dislikes ... ..." may be present only in girls' comic books, but it seems to me that even a real woman "might like me" It was supported by experiments using Facebook that it is effective that the action to be taken and "the love bargain" of repeating actions that disappointed "I am not interested in it" may be effective. Thesis isPsychological ScienceIt is published in the magazine.

Psychologists at the University of Virginia and Harvard said that 47 subjects of female students (undergraduates) at the University of Virginia who were told that "Facebook is a dating site" I showed my Facebook profile of less than 20 women, including you, to male students of the same age. "I asked them to evaluate the appeal of men by showing the profile of 4 men.

ByMiss_rogue

The Facebook profile of these four males was actually a fictitious one made for experiments, showing the same thing to all the subjects, but some subjects had "a male showing the profile Four people who valued you the most among them ", another group said" four men who evaluated you as average "and the third group said" Your Four people who are either men who rated them most, or men who evaluated as average ".

As a result, the subjects of the group of four men who seemed to be "likable to themselves" felt more attractive to those men than to the group which was considered "not particularly liked" It seems there was a tendency. This is in agreement with the psychology that "A knows how much A loves B" which is backed up by various research, depending on how much A likes A and A thinks.

In other words, if you want to know whether Sarah likes classmate Bob, you can ask Sarah, "Do you think Bob is like you?" Sarah can say that Sarah, Sarah's most favorable, has Bob's favor, if she answers, "You also noticed, in fact, even though you actually thought that Bob does not like me."

ByNatebeaty

But what if Sarah replies "I do not know"? Sarah, who tried to solve Bob's mystery, said Bob would like me for a long time thinking about Bob, became more attractive to Bob than before, Eventually it may become like to think "I might like Bob."

In support of the theory that this woman felt its attraction to the man so much as to think whether or not a man likes himself, the profile showed out of the three groups The subjects that were most likely to feel attractive to men were subjects who were not aware of whether the four men liked themselves or not. In other words, women are more "men who do not care about themselves" than "men who are not interested in themselves", "men who likes themselves" than "men who likes themselves" It is easy to become like.

Women in the subjects judged men's appeal with limited information that only looked at their profile on Facebook, but it is almost the same situation when men and women get acquainted with a dating site actually, and even in the real world they will face each other for the first time For near men and women, the psychology close to this experimental result may be working.

However, unless it is in the eye of a woman in the first place, the mysterious behavior also ends with "just a strange person", not "someone who might like me or may not be like me". First of all, if you can not be conscious of 'I like this person' first, the action that makes me think that 'after all I am not interested' may end up being completely useless, even against adverse effects It can be.


Sarah, who began thinking about Bob as if it was me? May soon end up being in love with Bob, but no matter how mysterious Bob he is, Bob's friend If A does not ask Sarah "Do you think Bob is like you?", Sarah may have never saw Bob as a boyfriend candidate and ended with the recognition of "a strange person in the same class" It may have been.