What is "Friend Zone" that you can not approach closely with opposite sex partner?

ByJonathan Potter

It is the same as anywhere in the world that there is a dangling state that relationships with opposite sex partners are neither friends nor love relationships, or even relationships such as physical relationships are impossible. It's very painful to spend your days while having opportunities to myself, having feelings that do not convey to you because of the feeling that you are jealous, but some people may think that "but that is nice" in some cases The situation is that in the US "friend zone(Friend Zone) "is called.

Casually Explained: The Friend Zone - YouTube


The Friend Zone is a zone that is located one step further away, not into the "Bone Zone" closest to the partner as follows. By the way, with the bone zone,Urban DictionaryAccording to "means a zone that can also develop into sex", and conversely outside the Friend Zone the possibility is completely zero "No Zone".


Looking at "Friend Zone" in the Urban Dictionary, "A place where a man reaches as a result of not being able to give an impression to an attracted woman, in most cases she says" You are a good friend " I noticed that, many of them have long facts of hardship and the fact that the other women change their lovers in turn one after another, "as if it were a realistic explanation that seems almost unnecessary to others. From here, it seems that it is not a forward-looking thing that makes me feel the development of Japanese "less than friends and less than lovers", but a poor situation that is placed in the mindset of disappointment.

Urban Dictionary: Friend Zone


A woman who positions men as a friend zone always keeps a distance from the opponent. Men side without permission "Game of Sloan Zone(Zone where you can see together the drama "Game of Sloan" with lots of sexy scenes) ", the woman will not enter that area.


This discrepancy arises because the male side often misunderstood the "signature" of the woman. The signature is "being in the room together" "staring at each other staring" "winking at each other at the same time".


This misunderstanding can also happen in everyday life. For example, when you visit a coffee shop, sometimes a conversation fun with a cute woman at the counter.


In such a case, this clerk sometimes writes the heart mark with his name in the cup. In many cases, men think that "This may be cool" ......


In fact, the cup of men who ordered next often has names and hearts written in the same way. In this way, if you truly have a favor and if you mistakenly judge a simple "Friend Zone", you may return to yourself later as a painful thought.


So, how can we determine if it is a friend zone? In the movie, since there are five stages before understanding that it is a friend zone, it is explained that it is only necessary to judge at what stage you are in.


The first stage is "reject"


This is not to be "denied" by the other party, but "the relationship between me and her is supposed to be not a friend zone", it is the stage of turning his eyes off the facts. "It should be such a thing only for her ..." is a pattern that is located at this stage.


The next stage is "Anger". This is the feelings of anger that I hold against my opponent.


It is at this stage that "I feel I can not even watch Game of Sloan together," feeling irrational anger, "Feeling Friend Zone ......?" At this stage. There is no choice but to get angry because the other person does not feel like it.


The third stage is "Bargaining (bargaining)"


It is this timing that I actively try to date.


A woman who does not pass the intention also shows a picture of another man to a man saying "I'm tortoosing ... ...", and the situation without a pulse perfectly. Still, he or she is poisoning from a disbelief, "All black and white, everyone is already dead" and so on.


The fourth stage is "despair"


Knowing why women showed such a picture to themselves, the reason is "I think that I am gay", it is here that makes me feel dark.


And the stage where the 5th stage to be reached at the end "accept".


Actually it is not like that, it is the last stage to start thinking like "It might be a nice guy" as if to fit her.


But the most important thing to consider is the big problem of "Can you get out of the friend zone?" Then, a psychologist at Pennsylvania State University announced a countermeasure on this problem.


According to its contents, the first step to get out of the friend zone is "to become attractive", the next ... ...


It seems that it is the only way that only "to become attractive" actually breaks away from the Friend Zone. It is advice that I feel there is neither former nor child, but after all it may be saying that there is one answer.


And another advice "I should ask a woman." If a woman sees herself as a love subject, it will be a pleasing result, and conversely, even if you answer "no" it can be recognized that it is a conclusion.


Humans have the ability to look back on the past so that even when a situation falls into the friend zone again next time, just go from the mere "Friend Zone" to "Friend Zone to Merge Between Each Other" It was said that it should do.