Five Steps to Grab a Chance to Crawl from a Failure

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A moment will come when you feel frustrated that you can say that it is always a milestone in life, such as restructuring or failure in taking the exam. I could not accept what happened, it got confused, I just held my head and I could not move. However, there is always hope before the setback. I will give you five steps that will help you stand up again without being caught by negative emotions.

5 Quick Ways to Deal With Confusion and Conflict Within You - by Dumb Little Man

1: Chaos is a mother of success

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Experiencing the setback from the bottom of the heart makes me feel confused as much as I can not judge anything. But this confusion is a rite of passage when overcoming difficult walls. After this confusion has passed, we are waiting for success that we had never thought of. Do not get hopeless in all your lives or get away from the reality by escaping from confusion.

However, it is inevitable for disorientation that the feelings are so disturbed that despair can not be helped. Please try putting it in a corner of your head just at the phrase "Do not despair" at the very least so as not to act early in case of emergency.

2: Accept the current state and objective

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For example, suppose you made a big mistake irreparable at work. Then, you may be tempted to be overwhelmed by strong desperation despises that you want to throw away, including parts other than those that triggered it.

Please look around your surroundings. It will make you jealous as a passerby looks happy without any hardships. However, if you look at it from the roadside, it is only one of the passersby who seems to be happy, and it is not only you who have suffering. Even just noticing that the load on the shoulder will be lighter and you can review your own feelings.

It is a repetition of what I said earlier, please remember that the pain you feel in frustration is temporary. It seems to be an act like scraping scars, but it is quick to heal when you accept your honest feelings that come from frustration. It will not start even if you temporarily cheat or lie or make excuses.

3: Do not ignore new possibilities

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The more you gain experience, the easier it will be to live. Also, maintaining the current situation is actually the most difficult and painful thing. For example, even if you lose your job and become disappointed, it is only a single door closed, another door behind you should be open at the same time.

In such a case, the mistake that many people commit is to knock on closed doors and keep on waiting for unresponsive reply. Even if you stick to your vision and stick to the past you will not get much fruit.

4: borrow the power of specialists

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If the depression is terrible, try to take the power of a specialist. The specialist here is not a spiritual counselor, but a hypnotherapist orNLPSpecialists such as those who have expertise to solve mental problems.

In Japan, using psychiatric departments and psychosomatic medicine departments are not yet accepted socially, there are a large number of people who remember intense resistance to counseling and revealing their troubles. However, those who recover quickly with appropriate help can reduce damage in subsequent life.

Although the author, J · K · Rowling of the series of children's book "Harry Potter" series which was greatly hit worldwide and also made into a movie and made a great success also thought of suicide with a shock coming from divorce , A doctor in charge "Cognitive behavioral therapyI received a refund by receiving it. At that time the doctor played a very big role and when I interviewed"It was this doctor who saved me."It seems that it was enough to tell.

5: Failure comes again

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Failure and return are like connected circles, and once you overcome your setbacks, the next wall awaits. If you hear that, you may be tired of how many times you can get over it. In other words, from any difficulties it can be rebuilt either. People will grow by repeatedly experiencing the confusion that the front of the eyes becomes dark and the field of vision can be opened.

Finally, let's know what successes famous people tasted the failure before and overcame the setbacks without hitting it. Not everyone can accomplish a feat, but there may be moments when I think that I am insignificant. But whatever severe setbacks or failures you may have, there is a chance for everyone to succeed unless you give up.

◆ Albert Einstein


Einstein, a physicist known for the theory of relativity, had little to speak until about 5 years old, and even after that he was living with language disorders. Alberto's conversation is not fluent even at the elementary school age, classmates called Alberto "a bad guy", and even in the class he was treated as a heretic. FurthermoreMy teacher also advised me to drop out because I was told that "your presence will be damaged just by you".

In addition, at university time, authority-oriented professors disliked themselves, they could not give one poster of the assistants among classmates, and they decided to work for a Swiss patent office completely independent of research. However, while working at a patent office that does not relate to research, he did not stop self-study, but in just one year he announced the big thesis on quantum theory, relativity theory, Brownian movement, and E = MC 2 rapidly, We have made a remarkable achievement.

◆ Chester · Carlson


Chester Carlson, the father of a copy machine, was disgusted with the task of copying patent-pending documents with handwriting or typewriters. He invented the same principle as the current copy machine which used static electricity by self-study, thinking "I want to copy documents faster". Although it brought it to various companies,There are few companies interested in this technology, and more than 20 companies have declined his research supportHowever, a company that accepts his research at the end of sales will appear, and will continue to brush up technologies that were still rough as copiers. After thatXeroxis.

Among the enterprises refusing to bring him in, IBM is included and is the second generation presidentThomas J. Watson Jr.He said he regretted that "(the biggest fish that Carlson missed)".

◆ SONY founder Mr. Ibuka (left) and Morita Akio (right)

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The first product from SONY that has been successful worldwide in various fields such as audio equipment and games is an electric rice cooker. MoreoverDepending on the type of rice and the type of rice, there may be a core, like rice porridge, it is rare that it is rare to cook wellSo, it did not sell at all.

After that, we will continue to challenge new items such as electric cassette tape recorders and tape recorders one after another. And, as a mainstream at the time, developed a portable radio that was made compact and lightweight using transistors to counter the stationary radio using a vacuum tube. At the same time we changed the company name from the former company name to the current SONY, and also began exporting to foreign countries, and it developed rapidly.