10 reasons why you should confess cheating, 10 reasons why you should not do it

Although "affirmation of a real opponent when cheating" and "selfishness to do cheating" are positive and negative about affinities, it is easy to talk about the point of "what to do after cheating" I do not think so. Regardlessly, inadvertently, what should we think about when we cheated? I ordered them in order of importance.

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AskMen.com - Top 10: Reasons To Tell Her You 've Cheated

■ Reason why you should confess
1. She wants to hear about it from your mouth
I do not know what will happen to the relationship between the two afterwards. It is my responsibility to take responsibility after all, but she does not want to hear such things from other people's mouth.

2. It is right to confess the affair
A real man does not keep secret.

3. It is necessary to keep a relationship with her all the time
If you are going to tie in the future, it will be hard to tell a lie.

4. She is an important person
It is necessary to be honest for the important person Minimum requirements

5. Because not to say is also subject to anger
Because I will tell a lie, anger twice.

6. Cheating is "disturbing"
The possibility of being forgiven if "distracted" is high. It is suspected that it was planned if hidden.

7. Because you can escape from always living with attention
Mail, phone calls, going out ... You have to be careful of everything while you are cheating so that you will not fall.

8. Because we must maintain the trust of our friends
My friends will not tell her, but we rumors among our friends. I will lose credibility within my friends if I do not confess cheating.

9. It's hard to live with a sense of guilt
You can not keep calm as she or your wife cherishes you.

10. Because you can not trust the cheating partner and can keep up with it all the time.
Can you say that you truly understand the person you met shortly after meeting? If you carelessly know that you have real girls, you should notify me first as you do not know what you can do.

AskMen.com - Top 10: Reasons Not To Tell Her You 've Cheated

■ 10 Reasons Not to Confession
1. I can not do it even if I confess
Even if you forgive me on the spot she will never forget. We can not unwind the relationship between the two of us.

2. She does not want to know anything in the first place
I do not mean to cheat because there are no strangers. Both of them are happy.

3. Confessioning cheating is a selfish act
I am satisfied with my own feelings only.

4. Because I care about her
If it is not important I will not feel guilty and I will not continue to have relationships in the first place.

5. She may be gone.
As she leaves, her relationship with her also disappears.

6. She may be avenged
She can cheat oneself or rumors to all of your acquaintances.

7. Because she can cheat on her
It is not always that you are cheating oneself.

8. I can not put her in an advantageous position
Even if I confess her and forgive me, that fight will be brought out by every fight.

9. I do not have anything special about where I cheated
It is a waste to overlook her opportunity once in a lifetime in spite of her.

10. Since cheating is something that she can not find in the first place
If you put out the evidence properly, she will not even think of such a thing.

While I tried arranging good reasons and bad reasons for confessing cheating, though I thought that the "good to confess" faction premises that the relationship with her will continue for a long time, It is better not to do "faction seems to think on the premise that the relationship with her ends. I will confess if I want to continue, otherwise it will be judged to be silent. Either way it seems that there is no doubt that the right to make a final judgment is in the direction of cheating.